The parable that follows is one that I stumbled upon recently. (I could find no attribution.)
You may have read it before, but I challenge you to read it through the lens of your present circumstance and prayers.
A terrible storm came into a town and local officials sent out an emergency warning that the riverbanks would soon overflow and flood the nearby homes. They ordered everyone in the town to evacuate immediately.
A faithful Christian man heard the warning and decided to stay, saying to himself, “I will trust God and if I am in danger, then God will save me.”
The neighbors came by his house and said to him, “We’re leaving and there is room for you in our car, please come with us!” But the man declined. “I have faith that God will save me.”
As the man stood on his porch watching the water rise up the steps, a man in a canoe paddled by and called to him, “Hurry and come into my canoe, the waters are rising quickly!” But the man again said, “No thanks, God will save me.”
The floodwaters rose higher pouring water into his living room and the man had to retreat to the second floor. A police motorboat came by and saw him at the window. “We will come up and rescue you!” they shouted. But the man refused, waving them off saying, “Use your time to save someone else! I have faith that God will save me!”
The flood waters rose higher and higher and the man had to climb up to his rooftop.
A helicopter spotted him and dropped a rope ladder. A rescue officer came down the ladder and pleaded with the man, “Grab my hand and I will pull you up!” But the man still refused, folding his arms tightly to his body. “No thank you! God will save me!”
Shortly after, the house broke up and the floodwaters swept the man away and he drowned.
When in Heaven, the man stood before God and asked, “I put all of my faith in You. Why didn’t You save me?”
And God said, “Son, I sent you a warning. I sent you a car. I sent you a canoe. I sent you a motorboat. I sent you a helicopter. What were you looking for?”
One of the ways our pride intrudes into our spiritual life is that we want God’s help on our terms. When we ask God for healing or wisdom or resolution, often we also carry with us the picture of how it should go.
As there is nothing new under the sun, this patter is seen in biblical texts. One glaring example is from 2 Kings 5.
Elisha sent a messenger to say to him, “Go, wash yourself seven times in the Jordan, and your flesh will be restored and you will be cleansed.” But Naaman went away angry and said, “I thought that he would surely come out to me and stand and call on the name of the Lord his God, wave his hand over the spot and cure me of my leprosy. Are not Abana and Pharpar, the rivers of Damascus, better than all the waters of Israel? Couldn’t I wash in them and be cleansed?” So he turned and went off in a rage. Naaman’s servants went to him and said, “My father, if the prophet had told you to do some great thing, would you not have done it? How much more, then, when he tells you, ‘Wash and be cleansed’!”
Maybe you are so busy asking God to resolve your situation or remove your obstacle that you are missing the solution he is providing.
It is also possible that the solution He is providing is not meeting your approval, so you continue to ask.
Pride is blinding. Particularly when it causes us to think we know best. Our false identity tends to place us in the role God was meant to fill.
How is your false identity keeping you from seeing the work of God in your life?
What assistance to your hurdle or circumstance seems beneath your expectations?
Who in your life does it appear God may be attempting to use to influence you?
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